integration fix: let oaisim (S1) work again

- some cleanup
- thread names to include UE Mod_id
- arg of UE_thread_rxn_txnp4 to be struct rx_tx_thread_data again
- sync in UE_thread_rxn_txnp4 to use instance_cnt_rxtx again
- UE_thread to call itti_send_msg_to_task with UE->Mod_id + NB_eNB_INST
  instead of INSTANCE_DEFAULT again

This may break the softmodem UE, to be tested.
The most problematic thing may be the synchronization.
I don't think it will impact the processing at all,
but I won't bet my shirt on it.